where is_deleted = 0 and sender_user_id in(#{senderUserId} ,#{messageQO.receiverUserId})
FROM user_message
order by create_time desc
WHERE is_deleted = 0 AND sender_user_id IN (#{senderUserId} ,#{messageQO.receiverUserId}) AND receiver_user_id IN (#{senderUserId} ,#{messageQO.receiverUserId})